This is the end of the third week for MDO. When we pull into the parking lot, I get my chipper little boy out of the car, and can literally watch the anxiety come over him as we walk closer and closer to his classroom. Am I happy about this? No. But it's not like I'm going to cave and go rescue him either. I know he's in capable and loving hands while he's there - and he's never crying when I pick him up.
This past week, Ms. Sharon suggested that I have Jack walk in (I'm usually carrying him) on Thursday. I wasn't really sure how this would go, but I was willing to give it a shot. Apparently, it helps the child believe they made the decision to be there. So, after getting into the foyer of the building, I sat Jack down. He just stood there for a bit and then began following me. It's a pretty long walk, but he did great until we rounded the corner to his classroom. Then, it was a flood of tears. I kissed him and helped him walk into his room where he was immediately scooped up by one of the teachers.
Sad story? Sorta... Until you hear the rest of it. I left and started checking errands off my to-do list. About 9:45 I got a call from the MDO. My heart was racing. Could they not get him calmed down? Was he gushing blood? Did I forget something? No, no and no. It was Ms. Kim calling to tell me Jack was a totally different child on Thursday. He was happy, laughing, playing with the other kids, and didn't need his milk or taggie with him constantly. Talk about making this Momma's day!!! I couldn't have been happier. So, we'll see what next week holds, but I think we've made a breakthrough.
YEAH!!!!
ReplyDeleteGreat progress!! I'm so glad Jack is having fun, and you're getting the free time you need too. I'm so happy for you both. xxooxxoo ym
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